How to handle the first meeting post break up

Now depending on your situation, you may not ever have to see your ex again. But for you gals out there like me who need to be around your ex, the first meeting can be uber tough. 

I now know from experience.

It's weird, you know? Like, the last time I saw you you were dumping me. 

But follow this simple rule, and you're sure to be fine...

Be honest.

I didn't purposely try to make him feel bad, but I also didn't soften the blow. I told him straight up what I'm doing and how I'm doing. (I even came clean about the blog...)

I left feeling okay. It could have been a disaster, so I think this is a good sign!