Now if you cheated on your ex or you were a horrible girlfriend or you put too many demands on your ex, then yes....blame yourself.
BUT, if your situation is anything like mine, you have to make sure NOT to blame yourself.
I know everyone says that the "it's not you, it's me" line is bull shit, but there is truth in that.
I was a great girlfriend, and my ex will be the first to admit that. But sometimes your best is not what he needs. This is not your fault, and you shouldn't waste ANY time feeling guilty or thinking "what could I have done?" because this is a waste of time.
I am definitely guilty of feeling this way, but when I do I make sure to remind myself that this was not my fault.
LOVE YOURSELF! And before you know it, someone else will love you just as much.
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